41 Best Sex Toys for Couples, According to Sex Experts in 2023

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“Be willing to have a conversation with each other about what you’re looking for before you walk into a shop,” recommends Bex Caputo, a sex educator and former sex shop manager. Though the world of sex toys can be daunting even if you’re not a beginner, it’s much easier to get what you want if you and your partner are on the same page about the type(s) of sex toys you’re hoping to find and what you’re hoping to use them for.

Corrado recommends doing your research on toy materials (see our tips on buying your first vibrator) because some are better quality than others. Broadly speaking, you should avoid toys that are transparent or translucent as these tend to be made of materials you don’t want inside you, such as jelly or PVC. That type of toy “will be more affordable up front,” Corrado says, “but you’ll have to replace it in the long-term.” Generally, toys made of materials such as silicone, ABS plastic, glass, sealed ceramic, and stainless steel are going to be the easiest to clean, the longest lasting, and the most comfortable to use.

The best sex toys for couples

Below, we dive into what you should know before shopping for sex toys for couples, and we selected top-rated vibrators, vibrating cock rings, leather strap-on harnesses, rechargeable G-spot vibrators, clitoral toys, dildos, and more to try.

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