Love
The Best Vibrators to Show Your Clit Some Love
These suction, finger, and wand vibes are ready to show you a good time.
17 slides
By Suzannah Weiss and Malia Griggs
Buzz worthy
14 Wand Vibrators That’ll Supercharge Your Orgasms
Featuring all the right kinds of pressure.
14 slides
By Malia Griggs, Kasandra Brabaw, and Sarah Madaus
How to Turn Down a Friends' Trip If You Can't Afford It
A financial therapist offers her best (least-awkward) advice.
By Lindsay Bryan-Podvin, LMSW
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The wetter, the better
If You Squirt During Sex—Or Want to Try!—This Blanket Is a Godsend
Bonus: It’ll save your sheets from cum and lube.
By Malia Griggs
So far, so good
How to Keep Your Long-Distance Relationship Healthy, Happy, and Hot
It does take work, but it can absolutely be worth it.
By Samantha Vincenty
Love
You Don’t Need ‘Liquid Courage’ to Have Good Sex
Take it from someone who’s sober and more satisfied than ever.
By Tawny Lara
18 Hot and Horny Sex Games
Spice things up with kinky cards, dirty dice, and other thrilling activities.
18 slides
By Malia Griggs
Libido torpedos
What to Do If Your Antidepressants Are Killing Your Sex Drive
Low libido is a common side effect, but you don’t need to just put up with it.
By Korin Miller
Mother f*cker
The Exhausted Parent’s Guide to Having Great Sex More Often
Yes, you’re still hot. No, you can’t just expect it’ll happen spontaneously.
By Samantha Vincenty
Space heater
You Don’t Necessarily Need to Leave Your House to Have a Hot Date Night
Our garage bar invigorated our marriage. For you, maybe it’s the living room floor.
By Katie Arnold-Ratliff
Coming apart
My Partner and I Sleep in Separate Twin Beds and It Saved Our Sex Life
You know what’s hot? Feeling well-rested as hell.
By Samantha Vincenty
Conservation efforts
15 Relationship Tips From People Who’ve Been Together for 20-Plus Years
Never criticize your partner's body and be "yay” for each other.
By Lisa Butterworth
Fire starters
How to Stop a Sex Rut From Becoming a Full-On Sex Crater
It’s all about staying connected with your partner through the slump.
By Ro White
Me, myself, and ahhh
16 Ways to Make Your Masturbation Routine Even Hotter
Put your phone on do-not-disturb and get ready to seduce yourself.
By Cathryne Keller and Suzannah Weiss
Love
42 Sex Toys On Sale to Grab Ahead of Valentine’s Day
For more solo or partner play in the bedroom.
By Sara Coughlin, Brittany Vincent, Daisy Maldonado, and Malia Griggs
Love
Just Some Fun Sex Toys You and Your Partner Will Love
Come one, come all.
41 slides
By Gabrielle Kassel, Kate Sloan, and Sarah Madaus
9 Feel-Good Books That Celebrate Non-Romantic Love
Partners aren’t the only objects worthy of our affection.
9 slides
By Christine Pride
Love
64 Lovely Valentine’s Day Gifts for Everyone in Your Life
Find something flirty, sexy, or sweet in time for V-Day.
By Malia Griggs, Jenifer Calle, and Sara Coughlin
The 13 Best Anal Lubes, According to Sex Experts
“You should want to be on a water slide.”
13 slides
By Sarah Madaus